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I thanked him for his interest, but let him know that that wouldn't be happening. He asked me to reconsider and retain “an open mind.” I felt frustration and anger boil up inside me as I looked at this man three decades my senior, who had manipulated me into a meeting under false pretences and then dismissed my refusal of his advances as close-minded. Instead, I ignored his emails until he finally gave up.
Being hit on by men who are considerably older was not new to me.
At 33, I found it much harder to meet men than it had been in my early twenties.
When I set up a profile on Ok Cupid, I was inundated with messages from men in their late forties, fifties and even some in their sixties.
Shortly after I completed college, my dad confided in me that he had never loved my mother.
When I asked why he married her, he told me it was because he was ready to have a kid and she was young and pretty - and if he had a daughter, he wanted her to be pretty, too.
However, their age difference could not compensate for my father's insecurity over being with someone who had achieved more academically and professionally than he had.
This revelation soured me against dating any man who was more than a few years older. Last year, after a hiatus from online dating, I decided to return.
Two years earlier, my relationship of nearly a decade ended.At 20, she had me and for the next three years, my father harassed her over money (she made much more than him); he also let her know that, while she may have had straight As in high school, he, a junior high dropout, was the smarter of the pair.By 24, my mother was divorced and saddled with a kid while my dad returned to being an eligible bachelor who continued dating young adults.At 18, my mother met and married my 34-year-old father, who was a janitor in the building where she was an executive assistant.Fresh out of high school, my father had been her first kiss, her first sexual experience, her first love.
Eventually, we arranged to meet at a cafe near my apartment.